Messaging on Tinder is a great way to get to know someone. However, messaging again and again may be too much and can be a problem. So how do you know what is the right balance? You don’t want to seem desperate and push them away but you want them to know you are serious.
You may think that sending a few messages on Tinder is harmless, but if you send too many messages at once, you could come off as needy or desperate. Wait to message again on Tinder until you have given ample time for the other person to respond.
Sending multiple messages back-to-back could make you look like a stalker. Don’t send a message again just because you feel bad either. This could make you appear weak and insecure. Instead, try to find a reason to message them. If you are going out with someone who has been flaking on plans, don’t keep contacting them. Let them come to you and try to distract yourself by keeping busy with other things.